Tuesday, May 4, 2010

I cut My girl's bangs last night

She has been such a pill lately major meltdowns over things that don't seem to really be happening
The woman from the school, helped me write the list  with pictures of course depicting everything we were going to do, with a check mark for J so she can finish her list, and in the morning not have to stress about things like before....We had had a terrible morning where J had had a meltdown and took off her clothes and shoes and hid them, we ended up being late for school.  funny that I can chuckle about it now :) We had  instructions that we could not stray from the list, so when we picked up the boy from his friend's house we had to be strong about not staying longer :( 

but I forgot to include homework in that list, so when I tried to take it out and get her to do it....

 anyway totally my fault *sigh*
we had to get  back on track :)    dinner-dessert-bath  then she saw an ant that upset her, she seems to be the only one who is still seeing ants  but she got a sponge and started scrubbing the table I told her that she had to stop cleaning the table and I went back to combing her hair then later I was helping Moo with her hair and J went in and dumped the bottle of dish soap onto the kitchen table, I guess to clean away the filthy ant,  I don't know but I sent her to her room, which sounds like a punishment for her but it's not,  it's more designed to give me time to try and figure out if what she did was just because she didn't understand or if she was being bad KWIM?

So anyway I decided that she just didn't understand and called  her down and had her sit while we looked for ants that we could not find, and we talked about why using dish soap is not going to keep ants away and that she was not to use the dish soap any more.

But while we were sitting there I realized that her bangs go past her nose, that I have been putting off cutting her hair because I want to find someone who knows how to cut thick curly hair and make it more curly and less thick and easy to manage LOL  so I asked her if she wanted me to cut the hair away form her eyes and she said "yeah"  So I cut her bangs, which is not easy she squirms a lot LOL

but she can see now....wouldn't it be nice to find out that she was being a pill because her hair was in her eyes and bothering her> HAHA






 I'll post pics later